Sunday, September 30, 2007

  WORKING DAYS
 
Work each day, for family
Each minute is like a prayer
An offering to the God on high
who watches every growing leaf
In this green planet
 
 
But after each working day
I always come home,
Open my door, And find nothing
but an empty room
Aching heart feels so sad...
With the eyes swelling with tears...
 

Then my phone rings!!!!!
 
a poem by Susan (aka Rain )

a love poem

Reminiscense of Moonlight Flooded Roads

 

It has been years since I passed by this road

All these times I took that detour by choice

And though I heard it's now paved superbly

I always find funny excuses to steer away

 

But tonight, and for no particular reason

Perhaps, a little help from the flooding moon

The cobwebs of intentional amnesia parted

I seized nostalgia and took the route I dreaded

 

The road is better now, it drives differently

Gone are the potholes and so is that tree

Under which we have held hands and kissed

On one moonlit night that feels just like this!

 

I was a bit surprised by the freshness of it all

The traces and the memories that I still harbor

And though we said we have moved along

O how easily I get moved by an old lover's song

 

Slowly I drove, through some kind of reminiscin'

Memories warmed me with a sweet kind of pain

The bumps of the old road are gone but so is my love

That sweet fine young lady that I use to have…

 

O how I wish the road had stayed the same

The swirling dust, the moon-surface terrain

I could go back to walking under Asingan's sun

Sharing umbrella with my old dear loved one…
 
from Moonshine Struck
 
artwork: Vic Costes

Friday, September 28, 2007

meet Nelson Palaris aka Saneweng

Mr and Mrs Nelson Palaris.

 

 

Nelson and his 2 year-old son Johnlex. Seen with  his wife Pauline and his sister in law ( his brother's wife) seen at the back.

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Nelson's father Eddie served with the military as well. He is now retired and is still residing in Palaris, Asingan.   His father's brother Bernan ( now deceased) also served in the military.

Manong Eddie and Manong Bernan used to visit Domakit all the time because of my uncles and my mother.  Then we left for Hawaii in 1984, and recently  I moved to Virginia.   We hear from them every now and then when my mother comes back after  her vacation to the Philippines.  

Nelson told me he is assigned in Camp Aquino, Tarlac City.  He is presently a lawyer with the rank of Captain.  I  also found out that his mother (Dora Palaris) is in Cleveland, Ohio together with his daughter Mary Jane,  a nurse, Nelson's only sister. 

 
When we visited the Philippines in Dec 2002, that's the day  when Nelson just got married.  We were there the night of the wedding, just arrived and we were so tired and jet lagged.  Me and Adam fell asleep even though the Karaoke machine was blaring very loudly.
 
submitted by Marcie Uson Wise,
Virginia, USA
 
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( a continuation of  Food Festival, part 2 )
 
Here are more photos of Arsenia during that  meeting with Annie Cano. It was a meeting of the minds and good appetites..
 
 
Yummy...
 
 
Arsenia's plate of goodies...Yummy!! ( again )
 
 
Leche Flan, is it?
 
 
 
After a full meal like that one, who would not be sporting such a big smile?..:)
 
Will there be a big feast like that in Asingan in 2008?. If so, I will be eating nothing but bread and water for a whole week before I will fly, ha-ha!------#
 
 

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

a bloody page from Pangasinan history

THE PALARIS REVOLT

Juan de la Cruz, also known as Palaris, (Jan. 8, 1733-Feb. 26, 1765) was a leader in the province of Pangasinan in the Philippines who led a revolt against Spain during the 18th century. The uprising is known as the Palaris Revolt.

Early years

De la Cruz was born to Santiago de la Cruz, a village chief, and Catalina Ugnay, both of the defunct town of Binalatongan, Pangasinan. He had a brother (Colet) and a sister (Simeona). Being a family of a village chief (or cabeza de barangay, in Spanish), the De la Cruzes were members of Binalatongan's principalia (ruling class).

Little is known of the personal circumstances of De la Cruz except that he was educated in Binalatongan ( now known as San Carlos )  and was orphaned in his teens. He then moved to Manila and worked as the coachman of the Spanish official Francisco Enriquez de Villacorta, a member of the Audiencia Real, which served as the privy council of the governor-general who governed the Philippines.

 Homecoming and revolt

After the English invasion of the Philippines, the Spanish colonial government, including Villacorta, went into exile to Bacolor in the province of Pampanga  which was then near  Pangasinan.

It was at this time that the principalia of Binalatongan protested the abuses committed by the provincial governor. The town leaders demanded that the governor be removed and that the colonial government stop collecting taxes since the islands were already under the British.

But the Spanish Governor General Simon de Anda dismissed the demands and the revolt broke out in November 1762. The name of De la Cruz, who began to be known as Palaris, emerged as one of the leaders of the revolt, along with his brother Colet, Andres Lopez and Juan de Vera Oncantin.

 Free Pangasinan

By December, all Spanish officials, except the Dominican friars who were in charge of the Catholic mission, had left Pangasinan. The Spanish colonial government had to deal with the British invaders and the simultaneous Silang Revolt,led by Diego Silang, in the neighboring province of Ilocos in the north. (The present-day province of La Union was still part of Pangasinan and Ilocos.)

At the Battle of Agno River of 1763, he faced on March 1, 1763 the Spaniard Alfonso de Arayat, who led a composite troop of Spanish soldiers and Filipinos loyal to Spain. Arayat withdrew after losing much of his Filipino loyalists.

Filipinos took over all official functions and controlled the province up to the Agno River, the natural boundary between Pangasinan and neighboring Pampanga in the south. (The present-day province of Tarlac was still part of Pampanga.)

At the height of the uprising, Palaris commanded 10,000 men. He was also in communication with Silang, with whom he was coordinating a bigger offensive against the Spanish.

 Defeats

However, the Seven Years' War ended on February 10, 1763 with the signing of the Treaty of Paris (1763) in Paris, France. Also, Silang was assassinated on May 28, 1763 by a Filipino under the employ of the Spanish friars. The Spanish were then able to focus on the uprising and mustered forces to surround Palaris.

The Spanish friars, who were allowed to stay in the province, also started a campaign to persuade Pangasinan residents of the futility of the Palaris Revolt.

By September 1763, news of the peace treaty reached Pangasinan and many of Palaris' men surrendered and returned to normal life amid the Spanish offensive.

Palaris tried to fend off the offensive at the village of Mabalitec near the Agno River between Binalatongan and Bayambang in December 1763. To prevent the Spanish from seeking lodging in his hometown, he ordered his men to raze Binalatongan.

But the Spanish won the Battle of Mabalitec, demoralizing Palaris' forces. The town of Binalatongan was rebuilt in another site between December 1763 to June 1764 and renamed San Carlos (now San Carlos City, Pangasinan), in honor of the reigning King Carlos III of Spain.

Palaris' forces made a last stand at the town of San Jacinto, Pangasinan, but they were defeated and Palaris' advisers, Andres Lopez and Juan de Vera Oncantin, were captured. They would later be hanged.

 Downfall

By March 1764, most of the province had already fallen, leaving Palaris no escape route except through Lingayen Gulf and the South China Sea in the west. He chose to stay in Pangasinan and hid among his supporters.

But his presence terrified his protectors and his own sister Simeona, who was apparently threatened by the Spanish clergy, betrayed him to Agustin Matias, the gobernadorcillo (mayor) of the razed Binalatongan.

Palaris was arrested on Jan. 16, 1765 and was brought to the provincial capital of Lingayen for trial. While in detention, he confessed being the principal leader of the revolt. He was convicted and hanged on Feb. 26, 1765. He was then only 32 years old.

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Tuesday, September 25, 2007

food, glorious food,

part 2

PHOTOS and CAPTIONS 

SUBMITTED BY ANNIE CANO

 

Pandesal,puto bumbong,tokwa't baboy,puto kutsinta to go.

 

 
 
Clockwise--Spring roll,fried bangus,picadillo,embutido,tokwa,menudo,fajita.bulanglang and fried sapsap on top of the plate.That was Manang Arsenia's first plate..
 
 
 
Pinapaitan,  Visaya style..Still missing the real Ilocano pinapaitan.
 
 
That's what they call it arroz caldo ala bicolano...
 
 
Ginataang bilo-bilo with kamote.A plate of fried bangus,picadillo,sisig,and kare-kare (Manang Arsenia's plate)
 
 
 
My second serving:Kare-kare with alamang on top,sisig with sliced jalapeno and a talbos ti kamote with long beans (not to mention the name in Ilocano baka ma-censor)
 
 
My first plate:Bulanglang,paksiw na baboy with radish/ okra and embutido.
 
 
I was halfway finished with my Tokwa't baboy when I thought of taking pictures since we were all talking about food.
 
 
 
My daughter's fancy food:pandesal and puto kutsinta.Puto bumbong was mine since it was ages the last time I tried it.Way back '80's in Makati.
 
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Monday, September 24, 2007

food, glorious food!

Kap-pe (Crabs) bought from Vien Hung MiraMesa San Diego

 

Dinuguan...

 

finally..

PINAKBET!

submitted by ARCHIE MACANAS

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SCENES FROM A BALL

My Grandaughter Mia, pretending to be a model ( or is it a ballerina?)..She is a Leo like so many members of my family...

 

Emma, her younger sister catching up with her.

 

Michelle, my daughter with Mia. She emceed ( with another fellow ) the evening's program..

 

This bird looks familiar...

 

Surprise!!...

 

At a fresco ( or mural ) near the ball room...

 

A Belle of the Ball?

 

Yep, it was a Masquerade party

.." Masquerade, paper faces on parade. Masquerade, hide your face so the world will never find you...."

--A.L. Webber

from PHANTOM OF THE OPERA

Sunday, September 23, 2007

to SS...

...from Ricky..

SS,

I remember that day clearly. You used the term crab mentality to describe what goes on in our heads and I refused to believe you can generalized that easily. You even went so far to use math concepts to describe some posters' characteristics that day. I read too much from those posts and I came back kicking thinking I was talking to someone else. I really thought you were grammar police. Your remotes were so close and you kept changing your name. Dee kept talking about writing style, but I haven't picked up on it yet. I used to compare remote #s to figure out who I was talking to. And when I finally realized who you were that's when I said it wasn't funny. I thought you were toying with me fully knowing I didn't know who you were.

I still hope that you're wrong, that we, as Filipinos, don't have crab mentality. The comments made in DC do not exemplify the Filipino culture I hold true and dear in my heart. I used to read DC quietly for months before I had the courage to leave my first post. In my head the notorious three, SOB, Archie, Dee, were the most opinionated, stubborn, and pretty much rude and unlikable posters. I couldn't be any more wrong. These three people can pack a wallop with their mouths, but in reality, they are one of the nicest, caring, and dependable people I've met. And it's not pakitang tao either. One only needs to watch and listen to how they interact with their families to know for sure they're genuine.

Here's a trick I learned after those dark days in DC. Do not take anything seriously or personally, unless you know them personally, which can be a little tricky for me since I've made it my business to meet some of them, hehehe. But I can still argue with them without attacking their persons. Understandably, DC can be volatile, after all, we're talking about characters from all walks of life. You can post "how are you" and it's given three different meanings and not one of them is what you meant to begin with. In a heated exchange, we'll post things that we'll never say to each other face to face. WWW does well hiding our identity, but it also allows us to know that there are others out there just like us. I have made more connections in DC with people from different corners of the globe who share my heritage, my beliefs, even my political views than anywhere else. And you gotta admit most of the posters in DC are well read,well informed, eloquent in more than one language, and they keep us busy and entertained. What else can you ask for?

I look forward to seeing you back, and I do apologize for my cheekiness. And I promise never to talk about math again. Ever.

Ricky

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I agree to EVERYTHING  you said here except the line.."we, as Filipinos, don't have crab mentality..." I prefer to believe that NOT ALL  Filipinos, have crab mentality....If all Filipinos do not have that mentality, then the Philippines would already have been a Utopia, an Eden, a real PEARL OF THE ORIENT SEAS...:)

--vic

 

Saturday, September 22, 2007

a gem of a posting from DC..

Realized something today, something that has been staring me in the face, something I should have told you straight away, something that makes me happy inside.

You are fantastic DC people:

Dahman, lovable tigerger woods/Jip/SOB, opinionated classy Deedee Connors, green-thumbed Mr. Essex Man/Bugsy, eloquent blogger Manong Vic, poetic Rain, prolific reader Kuya DO, best friends forever Mr. g and DQ, sweet under-aged Mystic, sunny Sunrise/Peenay, smart a…leck Arcadio and all his 67 aliases, Pia-nasaan ka nanaman, toothy-smiley-Susie B, now you see me - now you don’t Lorna, far away commander Osang, pldt Justice, Rebel in uniform, elusive MM, mysterious lower case “i” don’t make mistakes, great cook upper case K, disappearing act SS, compassionate Lambong, in hiding Canucks/Nucks/Lew/X’or/itbp, brother Edward, English only Richard, charming Ms. Monroe/gf, newsworthy Annie/Baboon/Oscar, ta rufam Rufa U, ‘padre RT, en-vouge pradada Photogenic, rain’s best friend Li’l Sis, grammar police spawn/wasp, magaling sa baybaying Pilipino Ginalyn, whatever happened to fely from the 50th state, or Sonny and Archie from Asingan, and last but not least, The One and Only “P”, and all the nameless KSPs out there. I think you get the point. You folks are one of the best!!! --- don’t “Back off”, time for a group hug, hehehe…

Yours Truly

Ricky, (ytr.)

Ricky the prolific writer who writes well in 3 languages: English, Ilocano and Pangala..I mean Pangasinan..:)

 

STAR TREK RE-DISCOVERED

Last week, I found that the STAR TREK ORIGINAL series ( the ones that made William Shatner and Leonard Nimoy icons in the sci-fi genre ) went on sale. My credit card suffered another setback.

But it was worth it. I saw only a couple of Star Trek episodes in the Philippines in a small B&W TV. But I discovered then its addictive spell. When I arrived in Toronto, cable TV made more Star trek re-runs accesible. LCDs were still "light years" away..But I did remember being in a mall a few weeks after my arrival in Toronto. I saw an episode of Star Trek with the young, boyish William Shatner exchanging barbs with Mr. Pointed Ears Spock.

But raising a family is more prioty than watching television. Missed lots of favorite programs cause sometimes I worked night shifts. And the VCR was not invented yet. Sorry it was ALREADY invented, but at that time it cost around 2,500 $ to have a Betamax ( the original model ) ..

To cut to the chase, I closed my eyes and I bought the Star Trek collection, season 1.. The first disc starts with the episode called THE MAN TRAP. I dimmed the lights and watched it on the 40" Sony Bravia, a recent addition to the household collection of electronic toys..

The remastering and writing on a disc was commendable. One could see the glisten of sweat in Captain Kirk's forehead as he landed on that hot planet to check on 2 humans who were doing some archeological work: a man and his wife. The man told Kirk he did not want them around. And the woman, well..she appeared in different forms to all 3 visitors from the Enterprise . She was a former girl friend of Bones McCoy, the doctor. To him, she appeared beautiful not a day older than 25. To Kirk, she appeared as a comely lady of 35 with streaks of gray in her hair. And to the 3rd member of the landing party, she appeared as a very sexy blonde. The 3rd member swore she looked like his girl friend in the Military Academy from where most of the crew of the Enterprise graduated. By this time, you have an inkling why the episode was entitled man trap.

These early episodes have that lovable and natural dialogues, especially between Kirk and the major characters. Shatner who seems to be still working ( He is in BOSTON LEGAL ) was fit as a fiddle, very little paunch and the bright twinkle in his eyes were never more sparkling. The episode, inspite of its crude props, ( a living plant in a solarium of the Enterprise looked very much like a gloved hand which it really was ), it was able to sustain its suspense and narrative punch up to the final conflict being resolved..and revealing WHO was the real MAN TRAP.

In the same Disc is Charlie X, Where no man has Gone before and the Naked Time..The sound was in Surround 5.1 ( like who cares about the fraction ) but you could hear the sound of the space ship going around your TV room especially in the opening title credits...

Now I have to do the housework faster ( Warp 10 ) so I can have more time in the TV room!----#

 

MEET ARSENIA

I took recently took a few pictures yesterday showing  me in my different moods.

I also posted a message in Asingan Message board about our GLOBAL HOMECOMING ALUMNI REUNION. I was the one who initiated the AALL ALUMNI ASSOCIATION FOUNDATION.  Your Library Project will be noted in our Event. I am also proud of the project you are working on. We are encouraging all batches of the 60's, 70's, 80's, 90' and the 20's to regiter and join our Feature ADOPT AN ALUMNI.

God Bless You and the people in the message board. Let's all make a difference.


Thank you,

Arsenia Navalta De Gracia
President/Founder/Organizer
AALL ALUMNI ASSOCIATION FOUNDATION
AHS, ASAT, LMMSAT, LMNHS Alumni Association Foundation

 

 

Friday, September 21, 2007

sharing 2 e-mails....

from Stauro ( Asingan )

Uncle Vic,
 
Hi, we have a really great development regarding our project. I just met with auntie Esther yesterday at PSU, they will be having a science symposium with space exploration as their topic. i've been included in the program to speak about science fiction: its role in imagination and development and I plan to talk about how star trek, star wars etc has helped mankind develop technologies and theories to benifit mankind in the real world. cool huh? Now I get to express the importance of reading and watching quality movies. I have asked that the ACES program be included in the program. so this will really help market the availability of the books.
 
Another GOOD NEWS! The tournament in taekwondo here at Asingan will push thru on Nov. 10. that means teams and chapters from around region 1 will be going to our great town. I plan to make this our chance to show the hospitality of Asingan. Hopefully the crew of Taekwondo TV will be here to cover it. That would really be the icing on the cake. As of now the projected budget for the tournament is around 90,000. 55,000 of which will go to the procurement of around 145 pieces of rubber matting for the courts. the others will be for office supplies, honorarium for the referees and officials and crew, publicity. whew.... but this is going to benefit Asingan as this will bring around 1000 mouths to feed, and 1000 potential tourist for Asingan in the future. 1000 people who will see how beautiful our town is. I am quite excited about this.
 
Another activity is the Halloween ball this October 31, but right now I'm clueless about the tradition. It would be nice to get some info about it.
 
This October we will be having the spelling bee for Asingan students first then have other schools from Urdaneta, Rosales and Tayug to join. After the November event, we plan to hold a Pangasinan's BEST Olympics, we will try to host an Olympics style event here at Asingan, to cover several sports.
 
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Halloween is celebrated with TRICK OR TREATING..From 6-10 pm, kids go around with bags asking for candies from houses. This won't be applicable in Asingan ( not yet anyway ) but with regards to the dance,  adults and YP's ( young people ) usually hold a costume ball..They can come as zombies, ( green faces, or with scary make-ups, rubber masks, hoboes ( tattered clothes ) mummies, (looking like a big suman), pirates, etc. Old clothes would do the the trick..Or come as Rizal or Maria Clara, Katipuneros, ( tabungao hat with machete ) ,  the costumes are limited only by one's imagination. The costumes need not be EXPENSIVE, just be CREATIVE..!--Vic
 
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from Mike Bartlett ( Toronto )
 
Ah, kids today have no idea what real fun is and how great games and toys used to be.  What with all the video games and DVDs, it's all melting their brains so they can't use their imagination anymore. 
 
One of the two best toys I ever had was the wooden go-cart I built with my father and the replica rifle my uncle carved for me.  I was seven when I got a carved  wooden "rifle" my uncle gave me for my birthday.  It was a solid piece of wood and even though it couldn't fire anything, I killed many a German soldier during my pretend invasions of Normandy.  My blood lust was only surpassed by my need for speed.  My father helped me (it's the way I remember it anyway) built a go-cart from a couple of bits of spare wood in the garage.  Much to my mother's dismay, I used the wheels off the baby coach my mother used to cart my infant sister around in on her walks.  I would race down the highest hill in my neighbourhood, my steering was a length of rope nailed to the front axle and my brakes were the soles of my
runners.  I was part Evel Knievel and part Chuck Yeager and I was hell bent on becoming the first Six Million Dollar Boy (it was the '70s remember). 

The Bionic Man was too cool.

Ahh, those were the days, indeed.
 
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Aha, your e-mail jogged my memory banks to a very old anecdote among us Costes siblings in the late 40s..I was not even in school yet at that time. But I remember my brother Donato who built a small cart big enough for 3 kids to ride on. ( Brother Donato grew up to be a good auto mechanic ).The wheels were big enough for comfort and easy transport. It was  much bigger than the Radio Flyer carts popularin US/Canada at that time.It was made of strong wood, got 2 wheels, a mini version of the big carts used by Asingan farmers during that time.
 
I remember riding around the town on it. Cars/busses were not common yet at that time but I remember some streets of Poblacion were already cemented.
 
And you know what we used as a pulling machine? It was a big goat, one of the family pets. He was so big ( according to my imagination ) that he was able to pull us 3 kids a few times around the block, from the ancestral house and back.
 
Oh yes, the goat was also the heart throb of the female goats in our backyard and he sired quite a number of kids ( no pun intended but young goats are called kids ) ..
 
"Those were the days my friend, I thought they'd never end.."!!
 ---Vic
 
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Wednesday, September 19, 2007

a poem in Pilipino

Sa Kabilang Pampang

 
Kay tagal mong hinabi ang daan patungo sa kabilang pampang,
Ragasa at hampas ng malalaking alon iyong sinalungat.
Sa murang pag-iisip,nagpunyagi ka at nagsumikap,
Sadyang mapang-akit ang tawag ng dayuhang dalampasigan.
 
Ang mga ibon, mataas, mabilis ang pag-lipad,
Nag-uunahan sa pagdagit ng uod-lupa
   ng may mai-alay sa mga inakay.
Ang alupihan, pagapang, mabagal ang pag-usad,
Hindi man naakit ay nais din pumaroon sa kabilang pampang.
 
 
Sammy D. Antonio
(aka. alakdan)
 
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That  is a poem I wrote when I was still in the Philippines. Like many others, I also dreamt of going abroad. People want to migrate out of the country for different reasons.Some with heavy hearts. But to them, going out of the country is just a temporary thing. They still love their motherland and someday they would fly back to her waiting arms.-------#
 
SDA
 

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

WRITING A FAMILY HISTORY MADE EASY ( maybe )  

I envy you Manong Vic for keeping a chronicle of you family's history. I wished i could write one like this and share it to my siblings especially to my two sons who are growing up in a foreign land. How could i write? I dont even know where to start? I only remember my dad's 4 brothers and one sister. I never had the upportunity to see my grandparents from both sides and had a little knowledge about them too. After reading your very nice article, i will try to scribble whatever this "searching" leads me.--Sammy A..

 

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You have also this gift of writing, Sammy as attested by some of  your articles in the AJ...Here are a few tips about writing a story about your family..

1) Listen to as much stories as you can about your parents, grandparents, great grand parents...Now that you still can, write down notes about them..Names, places, dates etc..Keep this notebook where you could eaily access it when you feel the urge to write...

2) Most of the stories I related re: my last posting came from my Mother..She was quite a story teller herself..

3) When you write something, pretend you are telling a story to only ONE PERSON,  someone whom you like..Picture him as someone who is very interested in listening ( and reading  ) your stories. It will inspire you to write and will open up your creative juices in your mind that will flow down into your heart and your hands...

4) Keep your narrative simple. Use simple sentences. Try to use descriptive language as much as you can.When you start correcting your own work, then you could add other better words as you move along...

5) When writing, do not worry re: grammar and spelling..Think first with your heart..you are telling a nice story to that "imaginary" child in front of you..You can always correct your grammar and spelling after you have written down a story which you yourself are happy to read....

 

6) To summarize the 5 pointers, write with your heart, love what you are writing..Think that there is nobody else who could write your family lore except you, who is gifted with this talent for writing!!..Keep on writing..Make it an everyday habit..Use a ball pen and paper if possible. Sometimes there  are so many distractions in the internet that would disrupt your trend of writing/thinking!....

Good luck to you Sammy and for anybody else who would like to write re: their family history!!

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Once Upon a Time in Asingan

REMEMBERING MY PATERNAL GRANDPA

According to my Mom, my grandfather Donato Costes y Serafica was born in barrio Toboy. My sister Ester even pointed out to me the exact house where he was born..It was near this bridge which is close to the Asingan/Binalonan border. My grandfather, my Mom said, was a hardworking farmer who would not hesitate to try anything that would legally bring in some money..

Soon it was said that he would meet my Grandma Modesta Gamboa.  She belonged to a family of 6 sisters. Her dad Juan Gamboa, would play the guitar and persuade her girls to sing and dance. Now I know from what gene pool I got my music inclinations..

Great grandpa Juan lived in a small house located between our present house and the de Mesa residence. This must have been around the early 1900's when Asingan was still in its infancy.

And so they got married. I saw my grandpa's portrait which embellished one wall of our living room. There were 3 portraits in oval expensive looking frames. Donato, Isaias and Alejandro. Strange but I never saw any portrait of my Dad Vicente or his sister Filomena. I guess during those days you won't have any portrait hanging on a wall until you are already dead.

Grandma Modesta's portrait done in color air brush was on the opposite wall. Very beautiful. The last time I saw her was a during her death in the 1951 after her long, colorful life in Asingan.

I never knew much about my 2 Uncles, Isaias and Alejandro. I heard they died at early ages.This left only Vicente and Filomena as surviving members of the family..

There was a big typhoon the night my dad was born. His birthdate is now famous in history. It is September 11.

According to my Mom, during the night my Dad was born, my grandpa was not in the house. he was out working, ferrying some stranded passengers most probably between the river at the Binalonan-Asingan river. When he arrived home, he saw my dad for the first time. And he had lots of money in his pocket.

They said my Dad was the lucky child in their union..

Eventually, from Toboy they moved to Poblacion and settled in that location where our house is presently located. It was not that big yet. That would come later.

My grandfather found lots of business opportunities in the Poblacion. He pioneered several enterprises. He was mechanically inclined ( like my brother ).So he put up a KISKISAN ( a rice husking machine belt driven by a deisel motor ). He and my grandma also bought and sold palay. They also had this palay thresher ( TILLADORA ), an archaic contraption now recently replaced by another modern day invention. But it visited the rice fields during the harvest time and threshed the bundled rice stalks and changed them into golden colored palay grains.

His business concerned food, one of the basic necessities. That is why it never went wrong. Besides he was hard working and so was my grandmother.

Their big chance came when they won the national sweepstakes.2,000 pesos it was but during those years it was already BIG money. My Grandma was so happy she ordered some metallic copies of the winning numbers  and had them displayed in the living room. It stayed there for several years. After she died, somebody removed the metallic numbers, but the color of the wood behind the numbers still show the numbers' outline.

The sweepstakes winnings boosted their fortune, together with the palay business. One day somebody asked grandpa to run for the mayoralty office. With his good PR and affluence, he won.

This was the feather in his cap, his crowning glory.

Unfortunately, he had one weakness: pork fat..He loved eating the delicious ( but lethal ) food. He ordered it by big containers called PALANGANAS.

Before the end of his office, he had a stroke and he succumbed to it.

One of the streets in Asingan ( behind the Municipio ) was named after him.

My elder brother was named after him. My only nephew was named Donato also, ( the third ) . My nephew had a son a few years back. Donato is also one of his names.I can surmise he is the 4th.

At present, my Grandfather, his wife my Grandma, my 2 uncles, my Mom, my dad and before I forget, my great grandpa Juan Gamboa occupy one spot, a corner lot of the Asingan Catholic cemetery.

May their souls rest in peace---#

Monday, September 17, 2007

more "treasures.."

..this time for the kids in Asingan

These 4 wooden boards have spaces in them, and each space have a black and white drawing. There are several pieces with the same shape and image ( this time in colour ) .. All the child would do is to match each piece into the equivalent space based on shape and recognized image.

The 4 boards are entitled: 3 little pigs, Cinderella, Snow white and the 7 dwarfs and Little Red Riding Hood....

After playing with the game, each story board is inserted into a wooden slip case and each piece is kept in a small box..The slip case is shown below.

This game is for Kinder children..I showed it to Emma and she said after finishing the game in 1 minute and a half..

"This game is fricking easy.."

"Hey you used the bad word.." I said..

"No I did not..that  is the other F word.."

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I am also sending some of my 2.5 " Star Wars figurines. Stauro will find a good use for them. Maybe exhibited in a glass display. Or maybe auction them. Will put other stuff in their place once they are gone..

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May the Force be with the ACES.....:)

Remembering Manang Nerling ( Nitcha-Fernandez )

 

Manang Nerling was one of the well known business women in Asingan during the 60s..She was always busy all year round and she made many friends in Asingan, including me. According to her daughter Vicky, she was good in what she did. And made good money too.

She had this Beauty Parlor near the Asingan Market entrance then ( Southern Gate ) beside the Farmacia Pine..When the beauty parlor is slow, she manufactured vinegar in a warehouse near her house ( located  at the Eastern perimeter of the Market ).Her older sister who lives in Dupac was always good in this cottage industry.

Good fortune smiled on her family when their Visa to the US was approved. They settled in Sacramento, California. I had the chance to visit  her farm which grew many varieties of Filipino veggies.. They sold these veggies thru a Japanese store ( according to Vicky )during the early days as she continued her business acumen   abroad..There are several Filipino families in this part of California.

I saw her twice when I visited Sacramento. She was still friendly as ever.

I felt sad when I read about her passing away from Danny Nitcha one of her nephews whom I think  is residing in Los Angeles.  Her younger sister, married to Fidel Bruno also resides in Lake Tahoe.

I really feel sorry for her departure, and may God bless her soul. !!

Saturday, September 15, 2007

Shopping at GW

a ceramic piece, intact..Called it THE STORY TELLER..It is not Royal Doulton but at first glance it looked like one. Price? 3.00$ Can...

"You shop where??"

"Soooo?" I said.."lots of businessmen and women go there..To buy stuff for their stores..Lots of collectors go there too..With magnifying glasses examining some odd looking knives or ceramic statuettes..Once in a while some serious collectors would mention some really valuable objects they found in this place.."

Yep, I have been visiting Goodwill for a number of years already..It is just a walking distance from my house. I need the hiking for exercise. And at the end of the hike, I love thinking of what stuff I could discover..Talk about motivation. A very powerful urge in anybody's life...

Many Asinganians in Toronto and suburbs are also in the habit. We usually share some funny incidents when we get together..One of them said that the day before a half-price sale ( half of what is already dirt cheap price ) he would hide the other pair of loudpeakers..Nobody would buy just one speaker..So the "claimant" would just pick up the other pair from under a stack of clothes or from the top of a bookshelf...Neat, huh?

Lately I have bought a nice Sanyo CD player with double tape player and which I matched it with some pair of speakers I have at home, it sounded just great! I see to it that every corner of my house has a sound system..ready to play music..

Aside from my electronic treasures, here are others which I was lucky to get before somebody else would!

See ya around folks..Have to go and check the Garage sales in my neighbourhood...:)

Emma playing with a Doll House made from plywood, ready to varnish ( which I promised myself to do )..Price? Just 5$..Comes with wooden mini accesories like sink, bed..etc. Small people were not included..

 

Here is a Madonna and Child which I picked up during a half price sale. I wound up paying 3.75$ Can. When my daughter Michelle saw it she said.."It is Ukrainian madonna.."

 

"How did you know?"

" The deign in the skirt is Ukrainian.."

That's what I thought too..Just did not want to say it first least I might sound like a blundering you-know-what..:)

 

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amplaya and mung beans

In Praise of Parya and Balatong

Some comments on the topic posted in the Pang.Org's Asingan Bulletin are worth publishing in the AJ....

Here are a few of 'em....

The "white house" of Asingan is located in Macalong, the barrio where i was born and raised. It is the final resting place for Asinganians,whether they like it or not. "Urnos ken talna" as we call it. It is so happened that in-between the mansions and bungalows of the permanent residents in this gated community is a fertile ground for wild ampalaya. We call it " parya balang".This vine went and go astray with no one cultivating and taking care of them, that is why it got this name, balang. It is so bitter beyond comparison.If you really want to taste real ampalaya, try this variety. Organic fertilizer working at its best. Related to this is a true story about this legendary lomboy tree. Just along the perimeter fence was this lomboy tree that grow so robust and proud. Usually during summer, aside from providing shade this tree bears abundant fruits to the point that some just fall to the ground. According to those who tasted this blackberry like one-seeded fruit, this fruit is different from the usual and traditional "longboy". This one so SUCCULENT and JUICY. As if the sweetness is coming from an underneath source. Coming from where? Your guess is good as mine. (more to come...)

Sammy Antonio, Texas

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Ayna naimas ngarud diay parya ta agat natay...sheeeeeeeeeesssssshhhhhh

Rain, Vancouver

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Idi ubing ak mang-mang-ngeg ko idi nga apay ta nagado nga parya balang idiay igid igid ti kampo santo (Macalong).Basta nalaka ti parya idiay Market halos ipadawat dan idi ket kunadan nag-gapo ti macalong ay matarusam mon nga nag-gapo idiay white house sen.

Archie M., Los Angeles

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U know my mom had balatong for dinner at my ninang's house last night and balatong lunch again today at a Filipino restaurant.She doesn't get tired eating balatong. My dad planted balatong, and i like it cause it's like tiny little beans and it's good! Balatong everywhere. Oh boy.. but i don't like the ampalaya though.

Mystic, Sacramento

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Ti parya agas ti diabetes kunada. naimas ti parya no nailaok ti manok nga tinola. Ngem apay ta adda ti makaipisok ken saan nga makaipisok iti parya. I mean, no aglot-loto-ak ti adda parya na ayabak pay ni baket ko nga mangipisok tapno saan unay napait ket no siyak ti mangipisok ayket saanen nga makan ta napait launay. Aniya ngata ti nagdeperensiya an mi apay ket kasdiay?.... Kasla dadiay gabi(aba) no dil-lawem ket insa mo ipisok ay ket ag-ga-gatel kan nga mangan, Idi idiay cabingcolan no kayat mi ti mangan ti kilawen nga aba adda may-maysa laeng iti maka-aramid ta no sikami ti agaramid saan nga masida ta makagatel. Any explanation? no apay kasdiay.

Archie, LA

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Kasla diay kunada, no agmula ka kano iti Santol, agmolmol ka iti sinakob ( hard brown sugar ) tapno nasam-it kano ti bunga diay santol..Ngem kasla bil-bilang, nagtilmon ka ti bukel ti santol. Kabigattan na nagbawas ka diay para angan ti balay yo. Rimmuar diay bukel ti santol. Nagtubo. Nagbunga. Ania ngata ti raman diay bunga na?..Tung-tong balatong la daytoy..ha-ha!

Vic, Toronto

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Pinapaitan nga saan nga napait? Saan nga pinapaitan daydiay ah no di ket SINANGLAW (inalsiman). Napanak naminsan nagrestaurant idiay NE ket nagorderak ti Pinapaitan. Idi sumangpet ket ay apo kasla binagyo nga sirok ti salamagi. Iti naimas a ket diay IMPATULID kuna mi idiay Ilocos. Fresh nga pespes ti ilaok mo saka ipatulid wenno paasuken bassit idiay paryok mabalinin. Parta kalding laeng daytoy nga putahe.

TNT, UK

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You got that right, pinapaitang balatong is with parya leaves and parya fruits. Diay berde la unay nga parya fruit ti sangkapaitan kasta met diay bulong na no berde kano launay mas napait. diay berde nga leaves ket adda pay maysa nga usar na. Pangpakinis ng mukha hindi pimples. A lot of parents with teenagers used that for their children to have a silky and smooth face. I'm one of those mothers, actually my husband recommended it for one of the girls. My sister-in-law who finished medical School used that to her teenagers before. so it can be food and medication at the same time. If anyone is aware of this back me up.

Photogenic, Texas

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talaga nga naimas iti balatong, dinengdeng man, ing-gisa man, wenno pinapaitan man. Duray anya iti sagpaw na: buntyek, karne, sadiwa wenno chicken pay. Ngem adda iti naimas nga balatong nga haan yo pay na-mention: datay DADAG nga nagimas nga idengdeng : )

ANONYMOUS

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My opinion on the balang nga parya ( or the big papayas along the cemetery walls , or the long - boy ). I think the buried stiffs in the white house has nothing to do with the size of the plants in there. The soil in the grounds are fertile, right only because nobody is using the area for agriculture. The soil nuitrents there are still high in level..According to our high school biology studies, plants grow because of PHOTOSYNTHESIS which creates the chlorophyll in those succulent parya leaves whether these parya plants grew in the cemetery or else where. The UV in sun rays is one germ killer, if used well..

So let us enjoy our parya and balatong. Especially when it is raining or when you are out there in the Agno river having a picnic.---#

vic

 

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Wednesday, September 12, 2007

blast from the past

Rediscovering the reel-to-reel

Years ago when I was still  in Asingan trying to figure out what to do with my life, I happened to meet Mr. Mike Acosta. We became immediate buddies because of our common love for one thing: the reel-to-reel tape recorder.

At that time there were just a few people who owned this gizmo. So we had Titong Arzadon and he had this Akai tape recorder with a built-in amp. But not happy with the set up, he bought a separate amp and fed the signal from the tape unit to this external amp. The sound was really glorious.

I bought one year ago from an electronic junk shoppe. It was an Akai tape deck with built in inputs for 2 mikes in case you want to do some Karaoke duet with an equally drunk buddy. It got a sound on sound feature..Meaning, you tape your voice on one track, then rewind it, replay the track and sing you with it with the mike on. Your 2nd singing will be recorded side by side with your first one! Neat huh? Can you do that with your CD player/recorder?

Last night, I dusted my Akai baby and since I was in the yearly process of rearranging my basement ( my den )  I connected the tape deck to a one of those portable Sony portable ( but powerful ) players. Tried playing and assessing the sound.  Maybe I have been listening to the tape deck when I was a kid and thus my hearing is biased. But it seems the sound of the tape deck has a quality which is never heard of in CDs.

I know, I know. It takes an effort to put on one tape into the machine for playing.  And you have to reverse it afterwards which takes a few more fumbling with butterfinger hands. Then you can not buy pre-recorded tapes for this baby anymore. Even blank tapes are nowhere to be found.

But still once in a while, I play it just to be mesmerized by the two reels turning around and around.

It is very hypnotic. And the sound, in my opinion sounds better than some CDs in its own way.  I did not say it is absolutely better than CDs. I added the phrase "in its own way."...:)

Yea man, I  rediscovered my Akai toy and brings me back to the 60s each time I play it in my den. ----#

 

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Monday, September 10, 2007

A Family reunion of a different kind..:)

Dillon and Emma practicing their SUNGKA  skills while Emma's dad Jonathan looks about. Dillon is my grandson ( only one ) with Bernadette. For a weird reason, they love this board game ( or parlor game  if u wanna call it that way) ..I still have to teach all the tricks of the game..like how to completely "kill" your opponent..Its a "bloody" game too, come to think of it..But the kids are addicted to it..

 

Mia ( Michelle's firstborn ) is doing her homework. Her Mom is watching a Harry Potter. Yes, that's a can of OTAP ( sugar cookies )  which was also a hit with them..

 

Chloe posing while Michelle is trying to tell her sumpthin'..Chloe is the exact copy of her Mom ( Michelle's younger sis Bernadette ). When Michelle carries her she says "I feel weird. It seems I am carrying Bernadette.."

 

Dillon playing SUNGKA while hugging the TASMANIAN DEVIL  a gift from Susan V. It is one of the dolls she won from the midway of the CNE 2007....

 

Mia showing a gift from Susan, a denim skirt. Both of them have the same birthday: August 11...Mia has just started high school in Mayfield one of the outstanding art schools in Ontario..

 

Bernadette and family ( Simon, Dillon & Chloe ) visited Toronto this week end. One reason is to check out a Virgin concert that took place in Toronto last Saturday & Sunday...

Yep, reunions esp. with grandkids are awesome.

If you have married kids with no kids, tell them to  hurry up making their own little ones.

Now that you are still strong enough to baby sit them..:)

note: Photos were taken with a kind of setting in a Sony digicam. It has a big F-stop, a flash and a longer than usual  exposure time..Use it without a tripod and these are the kinds of pictures  you will get..Weird, man

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